Leaving

Leaving, moving away, going to a new place, whatever you want to call it, i always results in the same thing losing people and people losing you. So you move to somewhere new away from your friends and yes you can now still stay in touch easily through the wonders of the Internet, but its just not the same is it.

So you've moved away from your home and your friends and now your getting use to your new life and your changing. You change from your former self. You come home to visit your friends and family and its just not the same as it was before since you've been gone all your friends have changed, you've changed and well nothings as good as what it was before you left. Your just not as close to your friends as you were before you left and you feel left out. New people have arrived and new things have happened all of this you have missed because of your absence.

so you try to catch up on everything in the little time that you are back but there's always stuff missed out and its not the same as being there. the main jist of this is that you just end up feeling left out from your old group of friends, and the longer your away the more you missed and the more you seam to grow apart from your friends. yes you can find new friends but its just not the same, they don't have the memories, the good times, the knowledge of you.

but still despite all this life still goes on, you find new people in your new place, you stay in touch as much as you can. yes you lose a lot but time can heal all that, maybe not completely but as much as needed to carry on with you life.

so my summary is go do what you want to do go where you want to and just don't lose complete contact with those closest to you